Hum Tum

Hiii, as you can make out from the title itself its all about men and women. As a new blogger although I have many weird thoughts and I decided to write something which is most common from our childhood till date. As we think men are from Mars and women are from Venus, we are sharing the same planet called Earth and reacting as alien to each other. We usually become angry or frustrated with the opposite sex because we have forgotten this important truth. We expect the opposite sex to be more like ourselves. We desire them to "want what we want" and "feel the way we feel.” Each gender is acclimated to its own planet’s society and customs, but not those of the other.

                 I am not dividing them according to their gender or planet, although still I have some weird thoughts Letter B and G, B is for Boys and G is for Girls. Boys life revolves around few things after birth ,baby ,boy, books, bunk, behaviour problems, board exams, bike, bar, booze, boobs, butt, blinking eyes, body building, bad, Batman (Spiderman, super heroes)business, bank, bills ,balance, bandage and bed. Sounds funny...is in it….or real??

                  Well another side G for girls, giggle, grades, games, gracefull, good, give, gentle touch, gentle man, gold, grocery, gossip, gems, gardening, grand maa and good bye….hahhaha!!!! It all looks funny and left us with a smile on our face no matter we are under B or G letter. In real life Beauty starts with B and Gadgets starts with G .Its all about understanding and accepting we are different and unique in our own way.

               Men and women give and receive the love in different way. Men are like rubber bands and women are like waves .Women should know, they should not stretch it too hard it may break, strech up to a limit so it will bounce back itself with more love and faith. Women are like waves .A natural cycle for woman that is centred on their ability to give to other people .when they give to others and don’t receive the same amount of love and attention in return, their wave begins to grow until it eventually crashes. This is the time when a woman needs the love, listening, understanding .she don’t share her problem to get solution, she shares just to talk. Once she rejuvenated, she is able to rise like a wave and once again has love and energy to give.

            Another side when men withdraw until they find a solution to the problem. They go into the “cave” with a sign board “don’t disturb” which is invisible to women .In these caves men are not necessarily focused on the problems at hand, many times this is a “time-out” to allow them to distance themselves from the problems so their brain can focus on something else and later they can revisit the problem with fresh perspective.

         We are not aliens; we are just different in our own way and can’t live without each other. You are letter G or B?????

    

 Disha Saxena